I don't know which ones are really effective and which ones are just to look more powerful. I know the products are used in sexual activity, but it's really the experience. So if you have a sexual partner and are interested in increasing your sexual experience, it's good to be informed.
I recommend to women to try products with no chemical components. If you have a vagina and can't get rid of the products, they should be removed. There are many products on the market that have a little bit of silicone which makes them more effective. There are also some products that are so expensive that you can't afford it, but they will not harm you. So the problem is not a problem with the product but a problem with your sexuality and your body. I am not going to tell you to avoid all products, because they are all good for you. You might feel like it, but the problem is that if you are not on the pill, you won't be able to take them. I am going to recommend you to make sure that your sexual partner knows that you are using a non-medicated method of self-care.